40 by 40 Update: #8 Submit Novel for Publication

(Back in May of 2007 I noticed that a bunch of people in the blogosphere had created lists of 101 things to do in 1001 days. I was intrigued by the notion but felt I needed to change the parameters. So I created my 40 by 40 list. 40 things I wanted to do before I turned 40. Well on August 17th I turn 40, and I need to give $10 to charity for every uncompleted item. So it is time to see how I did.)

8. Submit Novel for Publication – NOT COMPLETED
Running Tally: $30.00 to charity.

Do I need to explain why? See number 7 below.

40 by 40 Updatd: #9 Outline My Second Novel

(Back in May of 2007 I noticed that a bunch of people in the blogosphere had created lists of 101 things to do in 1001 days. I was intrigued by the notion but felt I needed to change the parameters. So I created my 40 by 40 list. 40 things I wanted to do before I turned 40. Well on August 17th I turn 40, and I need to give $10 to charity for every uncompleted item. So it is time to see how I did.)

9. Outline My Second Novel – NOT COMPLETED
Running Tally: $40.00 to charity.

See Number 7 below. ‘Nuff said.

40 by 40 Update: #7 Finish My First Novel

(Back in May of 2007 I noticed that a bunch of people in the blogosphere had created lists of 101 things to do in 1001 days. I was intrigued by the notion but felt I needed to change the parameters. So I created my 40 by 40 list. 40 things I wanted to do before I turned 40. Well on August 17th I turn 40, and I need to give $10 to charity for every uncompleted item. So it is time to see how I did.)

7. Finish My First Novel – NOT COMPLETED
Running Tally: $20.00 to charity.

Wow, where do I start explaining this one? In some ways I thought I could approach writing a novel the same way I would approach writing a research paper. Make an outline and fill in the spaces between outline points. Easy, novel written. Now don’t get me wrong, I had no delusions I was going to produce an enduring work of art. I doubt that it would have contained anything too profound. I would have been happy writing one of those “young” author first novels that is somewhat interesting or amusing with the majority of the small print run ending up in a clearance bin somewhere for $1.99. No lofty aspirations. One wonders why I wanted to write it in the first place. Oprah wasn’t going to choose it. It wouldn’t buy me a house, or allow me to quit my job. Literary prizes weren’t going to be coming my way. Why would I try?

Besides boredom, perhaps my biggest motivation was I felt that I had stories to tell, that someone else may actually be interested in reading. But I also felt like I didn’t have enough tricks or talent up my sleeve to waste time on short stories to actually work on writing fiction and getting feedback. I was worried that once I finished a short story or two I wouldn’t have anything left in my head to write a novel. All my limited creativity used up with just a few short stories. I know it is ridiculous but that is what I was thinking.

About thirty pages in I began to think that I didn’t have enough material for a novel. Could I really just puke words down on a page to fill in between the good bits and hope no one would notice? And then on top of that I thought I would make the protagonist straight, not gay. I didn’t want to write a gay book. I thought this might limit my audience. (Get’s more ridiculous doesn’t it?)

After another 15 pages I lost interest all together. That last word I wrote was in May of 2008. But recently after reading Maeve Brennan’s collectiton of short stories The Rose Garden, I began to feel differently about trying my hand a short stories. The idea of writing a short story or two suddenly didn’t bother me. Probably because I knew the novel was never going to happen. Why not try and get something meaningful on paper?

So I sat down and wrote my first short story. I’m even ready to share it with a few people. I’m interested to see if there is anything redeeming about the story. Stay tuned.

40 by 40 Update: #6 Write a Blog Tribute to the Womenfolk

(Back in May of 2007 I noticed that a bunch of people in the blogosphere had created lists of 101 things to do in 1001 days. I was intrigued by the notion but felt I needed to change the parameters. So I created my 40 by 40 list. 40 things I wanted to do before I turned 40. Well on August 17th I turn 40, and I need to give $10 to charity for every uncompleted item. So it is time to see how I did.)

6. Write a Blog Tribute to the Womenfolk – COMPLETED
Running Tally: $10.00 to charity.

Many of you may remember my tribute to the world’s greatest all women folk group from the 1960s. The tribute turned out to be wildly successful. Not only did I add some (a little) substance to the very little out there on the Internet about these five fabulous women, but the following also happened as a result of that blog post:

  • I spoke with three of the four surviving members over the phone and got to satisfy 20 years of curiosity. Thank you Leni, Lalah, and Babs.
  • I got to actually meet Babs Cooper in New York. I don’t know about her, but I had a wonderful time.
  • The four surviving members actually got together to catch up with each other. For some it was the first time they had seen each other in 40 years. And the women got some good local press.
  • Music writer Tony Sclafani wrote a great piece about my quest in The City Paper, the weekly alternative newspaper here in Washington DC.
  • All of the Womenfolks’ recordings are now available on iTunes and other music download sites. A far cry from scarce, scratchy vinyl that the Womenfolk’s fans have had to rely on for 40+ years.

This was a 40 by 40 goal that ended up exceeding all my expectations.

40 by 40 Update: #5 Make Four New Friends

(Back in May of 2007 I noticed that a bunch of people in the blogosphere had created lists of 101 things to do in 1001 days. I was intrigued by the notion but felt I needed to change the parameters. So I created my 40 by 40 list. 40 things I wanted to do before I turned 40. Well on August 17th I turn 40, and I need to give $10 to charity for every uncompleted item. So it is time to see how I did.)

5. Make Four New Friends – PARTIALLY COMPLETED
Running Tally: $10.00 to charity.

Being a homebody, stuck in books most of the time, I don’t really have the opportunity to meet many new people with whom I could become friends. I have gotten back into touch with lots of old friends on Facebook, but that isn’t the same thing. I did manage to make one new friend in the last two years. We both started work the same day as part of my ill-fated and previously discussed change from urban planning to travel planning. And despite my switch back to urban planning, we are still good friends and gossip buddies. So hey Deniz, thanks for the memories.

40 by 40 Update: #4 Pass the TAP Exam

(Back in May of 2007 I noticed that a bunch of people in the blogosphere had created lists of 101 things to do in 1001 days. I was intrigued by the notion but felt I needed to change the parameters. So I created my 40 by 40 list. 40 things I wanted to do before I turned 40. Well on August 17th I turn 40, and I need to give $10 to charity for every uncompleted item. So it is time to see how I did.)

4. Pass the TAP Exam – COMPLETED
Running Tally: $0.00 for charity.

I took the Travel Agent Proficiency (TAP) exam and passed it with flying colors. They allow 2 hours for the hundred question exam. It finished in 20 minutes and I only got 2 questions wrong. And believe me, that says more about the test than it does about my capabilities (as brilliant as they are).

40 by 40 Update: #3 Go to My 20 Year Class Reunion

(Back in May of 2007 I noticed that a bunch of people in the blogosphere had created lists of 101 things to do in 1001 days. I was intrigued by the notion but felt I needed to change the parameters. So I created my 40 by 40 list. 40 things I wanted to do before I turned 40. Well on August 17th I turn 40, and I need to give $10 to charity for every uncompleted item. So it is time to see how I did.)

3. Go to My 20 Year Class Reunion – COMPLETED
Running Tally: $0.00 for charity.

I was really looking forward to this. High School wasn’t the best time for me but I was interested in seeing some folks that I hadn’t seen for 20 years. I enjoyed myself and blogged about it here, but now I realize that I will keep in touch with those that I want to (and who want to keep in touch with me) and the rest…well, it might be 40 years before I decide to go back to another one.

40 by 40 Update: #2 Get Another Job

(Back in May of 2007 I noticed that a bunch of people in the blogosphere had created lists of 101 things to do in 1001 days. I was intrigued by the notion but felt I needed to change the parameters. So I created my 40 by 40 list. 40 things I wanted to do before I turned 40. Well on August 17th I turn 40, and I need to give $10 to charity for every uncompleted item. So it is time to see how I did.)

2. Get Another Job – COMPLETED
Running Tally: $0.00 for charity.

I was ecstatic when I started in the travel biz. I got a job working for a local travel agency where I was the low man on the totem pole, but I didn’t care. I loved every minute of my work day. I couldn’t stop talking about how much I loved my job. When we were up in New York for Thanksgiving I looked at John and said “I wish I was at work.”

So why did I last for only a year? The reasons are legion. One of them was an incompatibility with the firm that hired me. Even though I was the lowest man on the totem pole and had the salary to prove it, I was asked to do things that were far above what a “junior agent” would be required to do. At first I didn’t mind. I put in hundreds of extra hours planning the design for a new website and writing huge amounts of content. But it was fun, and I was getting to set the style and tone for the business. When the man who hired me quit, I was de facto manager for while. When his replacement didn’t know how to do her job, I was de facto manager again. When she quit, the owner asked me to take on a managerial role–but get this–for no additional salary. Even then I might not have minded if I had any sense that the business was going to move forward in a direction that I thought made sense. But that wasn’t going to happen.

I could have looked for other work in the travel business but by that time the economy was in the toilet and travel seemed even less lucrative than it had a year earlier. Plus, the odd thing about travel is that unless you are working for REALLY high end clients, the harder you work the less you make. Yes, that is right. Even if they charge a planning fee, agents still have to rely on the rather measly commissions that suppliers pay–and they generally make NOTHING on airline tickets unless they charge you a fee. The reality is there is a whole group of middle class and upper middle class travelers who are tired of trying to weed through all of the junk on the Internet and have gone back to using travel agents. Unfortunately, they have brought their bargain hunt mentality with them. That might sound fair, but what it means is that they are unwilling to tolerate a mark-up. So the agent has to work harder and spend more time to find a “deal” that the customer is willing to pay for. And the net result for the agent is that they get even less money despite the increase in work. And even then customers sometimes balk and want to walk away and “get it cheaper online.” It would be like working with a Real Estate agent who finds you your dream house, negotiates the price, fills out the paper work, and then you say “I don’t need you anymore, I can get the house 3% cheaper if I finish this up myself.”

Unless you do a huge volume on things like cruises and (shudder) Sandals, the only way to make money in the business is to have really high end clients who are willing to spend big money on travel. It sounds terrible, but that expensive $10,000 trip to Disney that you bought with your home equity loan is small beans and ain’t going to do much to pay the agent’s mortgage, or even pay for groceries.

So, realizing that it was unlikely that I was going to tap into enough big spenders to make anything other than chump change, I decided it was time to get out. As much as I loved the world of travel planning I want to actually retire someday on more than just Social Security.

And now I am working back in the land of urban planning and making a decent living again.

40 by 40 Update: #1 Quit My Job

(Back in May of 2007 I noticed that a bunch of people in the blogosphere had created lists of 101 things to do in 1001 days. I was intrigued by the notion but felt I needed to change the parameters. So I created my 40 by 40 list. 40 things I wanted to do before I turned 40. Well on August 17th I turn 40, and I need to give $10 to charity for every uncompleted item. So it is time to see how I did.)

1. Quit My Job – COMPLETED
Running Tally: $0.00 for charity.

I was almost 38 at the time that I made the 40 by 40 list and I felt the milestone birthday breathing down my neck. I felt like something was missing from my professional life. I was working as an Urban Planner for the federal government. The unfortunate thing is that the agency I worked for wasn’t so interested in what an urban planner had to say. So in October of 2007 I made a big change. I quit my government job in urban planning to get into travel planning.

I love to travel and I really love to plan travel. As soon as I returned from one vacation I was planning the next one. I like dreaming about the possibilities, I like doing the research, I like crafting the perfect itinerary, and I love to share my travel experiences with others. Combining this with my undying love for organization made travel planning a natural, if somewhat risky, choice for me. I knew the pay would be bad, but the prospect of being able to talk about travel all day at work seemed like more than ample consolation for a reduction in salary.

Well, as you will read in the update for #2 on my list, travel didn’t quite work out for me…so I quit that job after a year and am back working in urban planning at least temporarily.

The Shape of Things

Jackie over at Farm Lane Books Blog asked the question “What shape is your rating system?” She was wondering what the aggregate data of book ratings would look like represented graphically. So I went to my trusty spreadsheet that contains all the books I have read since 1995 and did a quick little chart that shows how my book ratings are distributed. From the chart you would think that I never met a book that I didn’t like. But, it turns out that I am much like many the commenters on Jackie’s blog. I don’t finish books I don’t like so they don’t show up on my booklist and therefore don’t show up on my ratings chart.